{"id":842,"date":"2016-08-12T23:59:38","date_gmt":"2016-08-13T04:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nitochsa.com\/?p=842"},"modified":"2026-05-22T19:37:42","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T19:37:42","slug":"happy-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nitochsa.com\/index.php\/2016\/08\/12\/happy-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As the day draws to a close and the minutes slowly vanish for another year, I sit, I ponder.. and wow.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s something you said to me only a few days ago&#8230; that someday very soon, you would have been with me for half of your life&#8230; wow.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for being in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for choosing me.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you.<\/p>\n<p>Although this special day that celebrates you comes to a close.. what you mean to me continues tomorrow and every day until the very next year where we get to celebrate once more and all the years thereafter. 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